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ok, what I am about to post was from a list owner who I suspect is a very unhappy soul.  They usually are when they lash out at people they know not.    I am afraid that she may be ill that causes her to twist things in such a way as to only make sense to herself and possibly those who place things and other living creatures above God's beloved men and women.  Yes, I know, I know, we who are compassionate do tend to prefer the company of creaturs over the evil of men and so help me, I can't see or hear of things of cruelty as I want to kill them too but...God has instilled in me a LOVE for people.  I truly love people and want so much for them all to find God's true love so that they in turn can show it to all of God's creatures.  We are not called to judge the worldly but be a beacon.


Now this I know will anger many of you who know me but please, save judgement as we never know what causes people to become what they are but I will omit her name just for the sake of protecting her.                 Anything in black has been added on my blog as I don't feel at this point that she is accepting any answers nor willing to believe them anyway.


N---- writes;


My comments are in GREEN


My original comments to her were in Blue…


A smart person would know who said what


N-----


-----Original Message-----

From: LifesAbundance [

Sent:
Wednesday, October 17, 2007 9:19 PM

To: N----

Subject: RE: HELLO some questions


 



Hello N-----,




 




Let me just answer each question/opinion one at a time.




See below.



N----- < wrote:





Why do you breed your dogs?Because many people love well bred, healthy animals for pets that have responsible breeders to go back to for answers and support of which they will never find in the commercial breeding corporations.   I also LOVE the whole birth process.  It is the one most rewarding thing that I do that truly brings me awe and joy. WATCH A VIDEO DO NOT BRING MORE DOGS INTO THIS WORLD!  A COMMENT ABOUT YOU WAS YOU DIDN’T CARE ABOUT THE DOGS ONCE THEY LEFT YOUR PLACE.  PEOPLE ARE DISENCHANTED WITH YOU ON THE INTERNET… I DID THE RESEARCH! 


  Do you think they like living in a kennel with “runs  Dogs are typically pack animals.  They love the company of others and people tend to "humanize" them to the point that they are confused as to their place in the "pack".  My dogs love being where I am and that is in my house with their own beds, TV (not round the clock because they give off radiation), heat, air, and large yards in which to exercise and play.   MY DOGS LOVE BEING WITH HUMANS MORE THAN OTHER ANIMALS.  PEOPLE TEND TO “HUMANIZE” THEM… TRUE ANIMAL LOVERS WOULD NOT USE THAT TERM TEND TO “HUMANIZE” THEM IF THEY TRULY WERE IN THE ANIMAL’S CORNER!!!! My .02


Go back and read the comment again about not caring about the dog after they left as it was said about someone else, not me.


 Do you do it for profit or do you work other jobs.  HA! there IS no profit in breeding dogs properly.  By the time a dog is over 2-3 yrs and is bred, you have already raised them for that 3 yrs, possibly have shown them to their championship at the tune of $4000.00 or more each, research and education seminars/classes, spent thousands on natural holistic remedies/supplements and diets, sent in samples of their DNA to the ASC DNA program for the isolation of certain genetics diseases, OFA, CERF, thyroid, etc. etc. etc. and that is not including any vet care, maintainance medications such as heartgard, kennel licsenses, grooming supplies, lots of beds, coats for the oldsters and lots and lots of toys.  YEAH BUT YOU SELL PUPPIES.  IF YOU HAD A DOG FOR 3 YEARS A TRUE ANIMAL LOVER WOULD BE BONDED AND NOT GET RID OF THE DOG.  I THINK THIS IS A SMOKESCREEN ON YOUR PART.  IF YOU TRULY LOVED YOUR DOGS YOU WOULD PROVIDE FOR THEM FOREVER.  THERE IS NO GETTING RID OF A DOG 2-3 YEARS AND EXPECT THEM TO FIND A HOME AS EASILY AS A PUPPY… THEREFORE, THEY ARE UNPRODUCTIVE FOR YOU .. YOU GET RID OF THEM.  I DO NOT BELIEVE YOU BREED DOGS PROPERLY AND I STAND ON MY STATEMENT!


Sounds like you have your plate full with all the people living with you to take care of and although I’m sure you get their  SSI its not a great living…so you breed the dogs to supplement your income.No, there is no supplementing income with all of that and because I am so particular about where my pups go, I do not sell to other show homes UNLESS I know them, their ethics and know that they take excellent care of their pets and have a good handle on cocker genetics and pedigrees which is why I typically have one or two left over for however long it takes to find just the right home for them and once they are over 7 mths of age, I do the spay/neutering myself to ensure that they do not develop habits of an intact dog/bitch due to hormones. The sale of puppies does however help in the care of my dogs.  It all goes back to them. It’s typical and usual that some people do thatOnly people who do not have the welfare of the breed at heart.  Right now, I am not breeding because the economy is so bad and I want to be very sure that there will be available homes before I do breed another.  THE ECONOMY IS SO BAD IS WHY YOU ARE NOT BREEDING CAUSE PEOPLE DO NOT WANT TO PAY.  SALE OF PUPPIES DOES HELP IN CARE OF YOUR DOGS SO YOU ARE MAKING OR IS IT SAVING YOURSELF MONEY BY BREEDING.  My dear, IT IS NOT TYPICAL IN MY WORLD AND USUAL THAT SOME PEOPLE DO IT.  SOME PEOPLE JUMP OFF BRIDGES, SOME PEOPLE KILL OTHER PEOPLE… DOES NOT MAKE IT TYPICAL AND USUAL NOW DOES IT…… (I THINK N------ SCORES A POINT HERE)


 




What do you grow on your farm and who works on this 80 acre farm.  We raise whitetail deer and elk.  They are captive bred and in high fence. The state of Michigan are trying to eradicate them in the wild in the lower parts of the state.  My husband is into trying to get the large bodies to match the heavy antlers as too many captive bred are small bodied and need the body mass to carry the larger racks.  We do not employ anyone. YOU RAISE WHITETAIL DEER AND ELK FOR WHAT REASON.. CAPTIVE BRED FOR WHAT MEAT?? FOR HUNTERS TO COME AND SHOOT AND PAY YOU FOR THE PRIVILEDGE OF BAGGING AN ANIMAL IN A CONTROLLED ENVIRONMENT.  OH LARGER RACKS LOOK GREAT TO HUNTERS ON THEIR WALLS… I CAN CLEARLY SEE YOUR POINT IN WANTING TO MATCH LARGE BODIES AND LARGER RACKS WITH MY SPIN ON WHY YOU ARE RAISING THEM…. I THINK YOU JUST LOST 5 POINTS HERE AGAIN….. I TRULY EXPECTED YOU TO SAY CORN OR SOYBEANS AS A RESPECTIBLE FARMER.


DO YOU NEED A LICENSE TO RAISE WILD ANIMALS.. PERHAPS ANIMAL CONTROL NEEDS TO BE CONTACTED TO LET THEM KNOW YOU MAY BE IN VIOLATION OF A PROTECTED ANIMAL.!!!


 




(yes, we are DNR licensed.)




Who is your vet. Addison Veterinary Clinic, Andy Kelly and Heike Joung Kelly.  I worked for Andy's father years ago when he was the vet there. THERE ARE ALL QUALITIES OF VETS AND AS LONG AS MOST GET REVENUE THEY COULD CARE LESS.  THE VET IS NOT AN ISSUE… HOWEVER, IF YOU PROVIDE ME WITH THEIR EMAIL ADDRESSES I WOULD BE HAPPY TO SEND THEM MY COMMENTS DIRECTLY ABOUT WHAT YOU WROTE…. FESS UP TO THEIR EMAIL ADDYS!


As far as I know, they do not have one but their number is 517-547-4975


 


What kind of health tests do you give them. See above.  Thyroid is checked at 2 and again at 5-7. Other blood tests may be given if a history within a line exists. If there is a history in a line why bother to breed or test??? I wouldn’t breed.


NO such thing as clear lines.  Genes hide, they don't disappear. Need to know your genes.  I am kind of glad that she doesn't breed.  She probably has left her fortune to her pets in her will.


  How many puppies have you had. You are talking over 17 yrs of breeding but let me just tell you this, when I started out, I was a "pet" breeder and bred fluffy and muffy to get buffy. REALLY DUMB THING… IRRESPONSIBLE PET OWNERSHIP! IMHO


What? am I too honest here? 


 Then, I got my first computer and the world opened up in the show fancy.  At that time, they were still sweeping things under the rug (and you are not guilty of this till you met me.. but now the truth is coming out) but I was being taught to do eyes and it was exceptable to do hips on males but not females but of course, that was silly so it is done on all that are in a breeding program.  Once I found a woman who finished my first champion, she became my mentor as she had been breeding healthy lines (says who?) for over 50 yrs and her mother before her. She was truthful about things that she had pop up and about other lines that she had seen.  I became passionate about genetics, then natural health.  My philosophy is to keep the next generation once both parents have bred clear over the span of their breeding years GEE how many ties do you breed them “during their breeding years”  People who love dogs and have pets don’t use that term as loosely as you do!)  (exception in my young buff girl) with different lines and to also keep tabs on certain traits that are recessive since you can't breed out, you have to breed away IF you know where your genes lie.  It is breeders like me who people come back to and refer to. I spent the first 6 yrs showing other more knowledgable breeder's dogs before I began to keep for myself once the lines had proven themselves.  I had a few that were not breed quality and were found pet homes once I asked the breeders if that is what they wanted me to do but make no mistake, their breeders would have taken them back and placed them themselves but, I loved them and needed to know where they were and who they were with. YOU DUMPED THEM I’m getting mixed responses on you on the internet Kimber and I’m being honest with you. Honest is good as long as judgement is made on personal experience and not hearsay. I AM TAKING YOU BY YOUR OWN WORDS AND PHRASES AND READING BETWEEN YOUR LINES AND I AM LESS THAN IMPRESED.




I am not sure what kind of typewriter she uses but things between her lines are definitely on the slanderous side.




My group emphasizes rescue.  I do not believe you fit in the spirit of my group.  Perhaps you should join a breeders group where you all can talk dogs and breeding.  Thankfully, our rescues and shelters very rarely see cockers and if they do, they call me. REALLY, THERE ARE MANY COCKER SPANIEL RESCUES IN EVERY PART OF THE COUNTRY THAT ARE OVERWHELMED BY COCKERS THAT ARE DYING DAILY BECAUSE OF NO HOMES.   I haven't had a phone call in 2 yrs. MAYBE YOU SAID NO TOO MANY TIMES OR ARE DEEMED AN INAPPROPRIATE ADOPTER?   I rescue my own at ALL times (THIS STATEMENT TELLS ME THE PEOPLE YOU SO HIGHLY SCREEN ARE NOT RESPONSIBLE AND END UP DUMPING THE DOGS WHICH YOU PROBABY USE IN YOUR BREEDING PROGRAM… and those of other breeders who are either too far away or are deceased and there are a couple of us who will rescue those belonging to them.  I have also had to rescue an entire kennel when a friend's situation changed. DID YOU ADD THEM TO YOUR ‘BREEDING STOCK?”


 Most went to their rightful breeders, others were spayed and placed as beloved pets but there were only 5 in all.  Very rarely will you see well bred cockers in rescue. I DISAGREE TOTALLY WITH THIS.  WELL BRED VS BRED.. A LIFE IS A LIFE IS A LIFE AND THEY ARE DYING EVERY DAY IN EVERY SHELTER IN THIS COUNTRY!!!!!


 That is one thing that MOST of the show fancy will never allow (yes, there are those who pump out puppies from champion dogs and sell them indiscrimanently and don't care but for most, they are well to do people who LOVE and CARE for the future of their breed. JUST IN MY CONVERSATION WITH YOU HERE I DO NOT BELIEVE YOU LOVE AND CARE ABOUT THE ANIMALS AND YOU NEED TO STOP PRODUCING THEM.  THEY ARE DYING, THE ECONOMY SUCKS AND YOU ARE A BYB.  I DON’T CARE IF YOU HAVE 5 LITTERS A YEAR OR 50 YOU ARE A BYB.




 




I hope you realize every litter you bring into this world at least 1-2 of them IF NOT MORE will end up in a shelter and face that horrible green door because people overbred dogs.  I emphasize that I take back ANYTHING that comes out of my kennel and except for some from the early years, I know exactly where each one is and have contact. YOU HAVE IGNORED PEOPLE WHO WANTED TO MAINTAIN CONTACT.. GOOGLE YOUR KENNEL NAME ON THE INTERNET….


If people can't screen their homes well enough to KNOW that they will honor this, then those are the ones you need to worry about.   As breeders go, I think you need to look at the profit breeders before you pounce on those who can well afford to selectively breed for selective clientel. TO ME YOU ARE A PROFIT BREEDER….. Think into your conscience.  The only problems I have with my concience is when I was first learning what it was to truly love this breed.  I don't regret the experiences I had as it has helped me make the choices and know the things I know now but, I am saddened at the poor heath that breeding pet cockers from other pet breeders had as they had no interest in tracking pedigrees or the health of their ancesters.  They were only interested in making rare colored cockers for big money as the so called "merle" movement is doing now. This is even if they ARE spayed/neutered and some of them won’t be.  Contracts are made to be broken and I doubt you would spend the money on lawyers to make sure your contracts are enforced. Don't be too sure of that as I had an incident just recently but thankfully, it was a misunderstanding and it was all over the new owners changing the puppy's diet too soon before the digestive tract was mature enough to handle it AND HOW OLD ARE THESE PUPPIES WHEN YOU LET THEM GO???? and I thought that they were going to introduce her to corn but thankfully, they had done all that they said they were going to do and I did not have to reposess the puppy but you better believe that I knew what day I was going to appear on their doorstep with a police officer as I did not give a reciept until I knew they fulfilled all that I asked.DREAM ON COPS DO NOT GET INVOLVED WITH OUT A COURT ORDER OR A SUSPECTED CASE OF ANIMAL ABUSE WITH OVERWHELMING EVIDENCE TO PRODUCE A WARRANT.  COPS DO JUST NOT GO WITH YOU TO SOMEONE’S HOUSE.  I LIVE IN THE REAL WORLD!  DO YOU?  A contract is only as good as someone is willing to legally enforce it.  In otherwords, unless you back it with legal action you can write the moon is made of green swiss cheese and you can get someone to sign it.   Contracts also make one “appear” legitimate… doesn’t mean its so.  I’m so mistrusting of a kennel like yours its not funny.  Personally, you need to convince me you are not a BYB and are not a “collector” Nonnie, no offense, but I really don't need to convince you as I am very happy and assured of who I am, what I do and why I do it.BYB’s TAKE YOUR ATTITUDE EASILY AND THINK THEY ARE JUSTIFIED.I do not make a profit obviously and I am a State paid caregiver at $9.50 hr, my husband is retired from the railroad but I thought it would be nice to reach out to other breed groups but perhaps yours is not for me as I do not trust anti breeders since to NOT have good breeders and keepers of the breed, is to leave the door wide open for the hunt corporation, the quantity not quality breeders, designer dog money breeders and the ones who just don't care where the dog is or how it is cared for once they get the money in their hands. I also know my limits and believe me, do not actively seek to "collect" more than I can care for. YOU J UST DUMP THEM OR FIND THEM HOMES THEN WHAT HAPPENS DOWN THE ROAD??? Huh huh ? When I have a lot of people needing to board their dogs, I can get pretty overwhelmed since I never cage them as they are used to having the run of their house.  It can be a lot like day care and believe me, I like order.  Boarding charges are only $7 a day but it is another income for buying dog food.  (I WOULD NOT LET YOU TAKE CARE OF MY DOGS WITHYOUR PHILOSOPHY NO MATTER HOW LITTLE YOU CHARGE… YOU AREN’T SUITABLE TO TAKE CARE OF EITHER DARLA OR THE PUNK!I will give you one more response to me before I deny you membership to my list based on my above concerns.I am also forwarding a copy of this to my list minus your email address for fairness. Fairness, hhhmmmm, there isn't a whole lot of that in this world is there but, in all fairness, I can see your point of view on rescue but still think you are barking up the wrong tree. I THINK I’M BARKING UP THE ONLY TREE YOU HAVE PRESENTED TO ME.  IF I WAS A PROSECUTING ATTORNEY I BET YOU THE JUDGE WOULD SAY I WON!  CHAPTER AND VERSE WITH YOUR OWN WORDS HANGING YOU!   It does sound like you have one opionion and one sure way of making sure that it is the only one that counts is having ownership of your own list so I don't believe that there is anything else I can say that can sway you and so with that I guess I will search out a forum that can give a true account of all sides of the coin and not just one opinion. I THINK MY GROUP SAYS IT HOW IT IS… WE ARE UNWILLING TO PUT UP WITH IRRESPONSIBLE BREEDERS AND BYB’S EVEN IF ONE SAYS THEY ARE A “CHRISTIAN” AS PER YOUR SIGNATURE.  I WISH YOU ANIMALS WOULD DO ON TO YOU AS YOU HAVE DONE ON TO THEM!  YOUR LIFE WOULD NOT BE SO PLEASANT.  YOU COULD BE DYING IN AN ANIMAL SHELTER….. Some of the people on my list might pound you!  I don't think they will get the chance since, as you said, this is my last chance and correspondence before you were going to deny me and so with that, may life bring you joy and fulfillment in all that you do and try to accomplish.  Kimber




  You are right.. you will not have the chance on my list.. but it will provolk some lively discussion on my list.


Consider yourself denied.. oops let me go and deny your membership.


Have a nice life but it won’t be on my list and reconsider all this dog breeding. THEY ARE DYING EVERY DAY WELL BRED COCKER SPANIELS AND DOGS OF ALL BREEDS that if ONLY the breeder were responsible… if only the owner were responsible… if only…….. and what did the dogs do … NOTHING… I side with the dogs and the Gavel is Banged.


N-----




If anybody finds something they've googled, will you please send it to me?  I am not finding anything other than show entries, a breeder website and a ratings web site so if you would, I would much appreciate it.


Of course, there is no perfect breeder but I have always tried to be honest about myself and my history with cockers.   There will always be extemist in every venue and I understand that but, it is unfortuate that it causes such cruelty in how we treat each other.  All for a cause that they believe is justified by harming emotionally, physically and spiritually.   Do they not realize that everything begins with love and by love, all things in the world will begin to heal and all creatures can be free from cruelty.....  She sees me as the enemy because there has been so much suffering due to indiscriminant breeding but, that is like me saying that all shelters are smokescreens for big business since many of them do import animals from other countries to keep money coming in but I sure don't dismiss them all as that way.  The worse ones, SPCA and ARA are to be avoided at all costs as they skim money from compassionate people to build sky scrapers and other businesses that have nothing to do with rescue.


Thank God I am sane;0)


 


2007-10-19 03:33:37 GMT
Comments (3 total)
Author:Anonymous
I think that the above comments were unfounded. I have researched your lines/health testing and was quite impressed with your website/pedigrees/health testing. I know there are MANY people out there who take an 'extremists' point of view on breeding. I think your dogs are absolutely beautiful, and wish you the best in the dog show world. Do not mind those who are 'close' minded. In this world there are MANY who if you do not share the same views/opinions as them you are critiqued/ridiculed/lamblasted with rude comments. This page speaks volumes about you: http://www.animalfrequency.org/breeder/1742
--Prefer to be kept anony.
2007-10-19 05:52:51 GMT
Author:Anonymous
Hhmmm, nose is too long, skull too flat, mismarked...Doesn't look like any show bred so you might want to check out where the SPCA got him since they are known to import from other countries to keep their shelters full. All rescues are big business but you might want to check with some of the Amish breeders. They generally auction their unwanted breeding "stock" so probably there....or perhaps the mills that supply the pet stores. This one looks a little downtrodden and was probably sold under 12 weeks to a young adult who could not possibly care for a dog long term.

N, are you ill? You do not act like a rational person so I hope that it is that you are just frustrated and illness is not the reason that you lash out at people whom you have no idea about but slander about things to make some sort of twisted sense...
BTW, the bitch with cats did not test with them prior to breeding but did the following test after whelp when she was due again. Sorry to whomever thought otherwise. I am certainly getting colorful mail from your misguided list members.
May your mind and heart line up true.
Kimber

Nwrote:
Here is another dog that needs saving.. Looks pure cocker to me…. Could it be one of your dog’s relatives????? Kimber states cockers do not need rescuing ... Sad that her character is really in question and she rubs me and other people into rescuing and not irresponsible breeding the WRONG way. My views have basis based on her own word. I am not close minded. Hey I bet you Ellen becomes a spokesperson for rescue vs a BYB which is what I feel Kimber is. My .02

WAKE UP AND SMELL THE COFFEE! DOGS ARE DYING EVERY DAY OF ALL BREEDS INCLUDING sweet, loving cockers that someone bred including Kimber!

-----Original Message-----
From: C@yahoogroups.com [mailto: @yahoogroups.com] On Behalf Of Sheila
Sent: Thursday, October 18, 2007 7:09 PM
To: @yahoogroups.com
Subject: [Pictures from Sheila: Surprise! She is a He and What a Cutie

Pictures for you! (picture does not show in blog but Kimber has no compassion and is a BYB. She may bluff some of you but not me with her own response!


From:

Today I went up the the SPCA to visit and take out Buffy. Most of you
may remember that Buffy was coming in to the SPCA the day I got Flash
out. I stopped up at the SPCA a few days later to see Buffy, but could
not take her out yet because she still needed her shots. I was told she
was a 2 year old female, and what a beauty. I was in love, and if I
didn't already have 4, I would have taken her immediately. So today I
went up to take her out. I spent quite a long time with her. We walked,
we ran, and we bonded on the grass. Imagine my surprise when I saw her
lift her leg to go, more than once. When I brought her back in, we
confirmed that she is a he. But what a beautiful boy with gorgeous long
eyelashes and the cutest freckles. Buffy is the sweetest, most loving
little cocker. He is full of energy and will make a very lucky family a
wonderful pet. I would love to see him find a home in our cocker
family. Anyone interested, please contact me. You can't help but love him.
Sheila

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--N
2007-10-19 13:37:38 GMT
Author:Anonymous
Nice try but you really are making yourself look very foolish. Perhaps you are a member of SPCA or PETA(At least I know the difference between a female and a male which just goes to show how much they really care) and use this exterior of yours to try to draw people in to give money toward animals that they are going to kill anyway so you can finance your propaganda? You say that I "dumped" my dogs? I don't think that those who felt very blessed to have them would appreciate being called a "dump". NOt everyone wants to go through a puppy stage and do prefer an older, more settled, WELL CARED for companion. Just because you don't see it that way, doesn't make it so. I cannot do anything about what others do or their ethics. I am responsible for my own actions and what comes of them.
I hate to think of poor Punk and Darla who have been bred by someone, somewhere and how you must hate them for it. Animals pick up on our emotions you know and if a person is hateful, sanctimonious or just plain mean spirited, it effects them. They must really cower down to you and is that what you really enjoy? Try being kind to those around you and see how much more rewarding it is to have some really great friends through a common bond whether it's children, of which I was not blessed with (but have great children and grandchildren through my husband)The most special bonds that I have with people are with those who I know through dogs in one way or another. Our animals will enjoy the joyful heart of their pack leader more than an ill tempered, opionionated and unhappy soul. I have a lot of compassion Nonnie, but it is for you.....
2007-10-19 22:00:41 GMT